If this is love, why is it so hard?
Our culture has a myth of happily ever after. We think: "Once I find love, then I’ll be happy, settled, secure, have a sense of belonging," etc.
In actuality, finding the one and getting into relationship is not a point of arrival.
It’s a portal.
It’s like a cauldron that stirs up our hardest emotions: shame, anger, fear, avoidance, judgement, you name it.
The person we love the most can look very scary at times.
In actuality, finding the one and getting into relationship is not a point of arrival.
It’s a portal.
It’s like a cauldron that stirs up our hardest emotions: shame, anger, fear, avoidance, judgement, you name it.
The person we love the most can look very scary at times.
Do any of these sound familiar?
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The stakes are high, our partner is the person who can hurt us the most. For this very reason, relationship has great potential to:
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I can help you become allies
In the hands of a trusted guide, who can shine light on what lies outside of your awareness, you can begin to unwind stuck patterns, find new pathways, and become allies in each other’s healing. We'll hold a vision for your relationship as a safe haven which fuels you both to face life’s challenges. As your relationship heals and as you let more love in, you'll see a ripple effect on your life.
Together we will:
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Couples who work with me report:
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I work with couples of all genders and orientations. I especially welcome non-binary or genderqueer identified folks, as well as kinky, polyamorous, and those in open relationships.